i ask those questions not to scare the hell out of you. i dont ask those questions to make it happen now. i ask those because i love you. and even if we both admit that we're not ready for that "future" it is still nice for me to think that my bf is willing to be part of my life in the future, if not in reality, in my imagination. and you know what? it hurts me when you are giving me those answers. answers that describe that i am a worthy choice but my question is if you want me to be your wife in the future. do u get the difference? i dont have any other person in mind to imagine that will be part of my future but you.